Learn Why Two Broken People Can’t Heal Each Other’s Wounds!
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 Let me tell you what almost made me loose my mind!

Was when I discovered that the most hellish thing I could ever do was to get into a relationship with a broken man!  

I learned very quickly that two broken people that get together in a relationship will never make the other whole… and as a matter of fact this created  the perfect recipe for a toxic relationship!

First of all I was a mess…. I got triggered really badly when he said something out of the side of his mouth that hit a nerve because it reminded me of some of the negative things that was said to me as a child.

Second of all, his mess seemed to be a lot bigger and more important than mine, which meant that if he was having a bad day or a break down, I had to push down my feelings down and come to his rescue – to console him, stroke his ego and hold the space for whatever was in his heart.

All I wanted was for him to reassure me that he loved, tell me that I was beautiful, sexy and make me feel like I was the most important person to him. However, I was left feeling empty, lonely, misunderstood, worthless and like I was never going to get my needs met, or get the love and support I so desperately needed.  And when my little girl inside came out to have a temper tantrum and go off (what seemed to work in the past) – Instead of coming to my rescue – he got triggered and his little boy came out and He had a worst temper tantrum, shut down and walked away – which only made me feel more insecure, abandoned and unworthy of being loved.

What I realized this that we were both abused and sexually assaulted as children and each of us were trying to heal ourselves by filling the empty space in our heart with the type of love we attracted… which ultimately seemed to remind us of our toxic childhood.

We were both stuck in our cycle: We would be kind for a few days, make passionate love, get triggered, start a war, make peace and then make love again…. And again…

Our brokenness bonded us together… and caused us to fight, argue and blame each other so badly that it tore us apart.

What life taught me is that if I didn’t disrupt my pattern of being wound driven, – I would continue to attract the wrong type of toxic men over and over again… until the message got so loud and the relationship got so bad that it broke me.

For years… I went from relationship to relationship trying to find the love I desired all of my life! 

But the laws of nature was faithful again and again… No matter what I did or who I dated – Life kept repeating the Pattern – the relationships would go from bad to worst…  each man cheated on me, lied to me, hit me, abused me, used me and spent up my money, bread-crumbed me, disappeared and re-appeared – all while having me on speed dial for booty calls. – Until one day… I realized that it was me and my ish!   That cause me to be attracted to jerks!

Does any of this sound familiar?

The only reason why it took me so long to figure this out and do my inner work.. was because I was afraid to examine what was causing my negative patterns and limited beliefs and what inner work I needed to do, because I thought it was a sign of weakness, I thought that I was too educated to need help and perhaps it would keep me stuck in my stuff!  – After all… I was the strong and most people came to me for advice.

So what happened was…

I got fed up… I broke down… and I was about to loose my mind and give up on men!  I was ready to stop the crap and pull my big girl panties up, do my work and have my beak-through- no matter what it took!

Once I started to realize that I was stuck in my mess!  I then went down the path, worked with a coach to figure out how did I get here and how in the world do I disrupt my toxic behavior patterns and negative self-talk & shift from being wound driven to purpose driving!

I realized that the only way I could do that was by doing my inner work on a deep soul level and getting in alignment with my core values!

What about you? 

  • Are you tired of being hurt, battered, abused, used by the wrong type of men, bread crumbed, ghosted and cheated on
  • Are you tired of dating the wrong type of broken men that can’t love you the way you deserve to be love?
  • Are you tired of dating good men and sabotaging the relationship?
  • Are you tired of trying to figure out when is it alright to invite a man over or have sex with him in 90 days and he still disappears?
  • Are you tired of feeling alone in your relationships?
  • Are you tired of getting triggered by the men and people in your life and you are not sure why you go off?
  •  Are you tired of feeling unworthy of love or feeling like there are no good men around?
  • Are you tired of dumbing it down or setting for mediocrity from men?

 Well – it’s about time, because…

No matter how many free seminars you watch, or books you read… you will continue to repeat the pattern…. And your relationships will get worst and worst – Until You make the decision to get the support you need to Identify the core pattern and DISRUPT IT – by doing deep inner work!

This is exactly what I’m up to NEXT WEEK!

I AM GOING TO Disrupt your Pattern at the Love Rejuvenation Retreat!  We are going to create your love breakthrough… once and for all – heal that little girl inside so she can STOP running your life!

We are going to walk it out, tap it out, paint it out, sip it out, massage it out and start healing those wounds…  And you know as your Healthy Love Coach, I have just the right Holistic team to stand and deliver on this promise. I will also teach you how to rewrite your love story and get back on the dating scene to attract relationship-ready men!

It’s time to Get Your Mind Right so you can Get healed and Get Your Man and Money Right!

It’s time for you to take the time out to invest in yourself – Right now!

I have made it super easy for you to attend the Love Rejuvenation Retreat, October 4-8th.

There are 2 ways you can get a ticket to the retreat:

1.     Simply purchase your ticket at 50% off! (Retreat Only)

2.     Pre-register for the next Healthy Fierce Love Class- beginning November. When you enroll for class, you will get your Retreat + the 6 month Class.

Simply pay your one-time deposit and then you will pay only $99 per week – for 6 months: which includes your weekly Live Group Coaching Class, worksheets, replays and 1:1 private coaching sessions with me. (Savings of $3800)

Simple right!

Don’t let this last opportunity of the year past you by…

Space is very limited! – Only 3 spots left! – Probably less by now…

If you already registered… Share the love and bring a friend!

 

Your Girl- The Healthy Love Coach!

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