How To Stop Attracting the Type of Wrong Men!
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Does it feel like you keep attracting the wrong type of men, over and over again and you just can’t find the love you truly deserve?

If so, there might be something that’s blocking you from attracting the healthy love you’ve always desired.

I work with many strong smart, successful women every day who use to struggle with dating and unconsciously sabotaged their relationship. – they ultimately destroyed their chances to attract and keep relationship-ready men because they were aware of their dating patterns or personal behavior patterns. Freud calls this, “repetition compulsion theory.” According to this theory, “we seek out relationships that remind us of ones that disappointed us in the past, and try for a second chance and a third and so forth.”

Here’s the real deal – We attract what we need to work on within ourselves.

Women get into toxic relationships and continue to attract the same type of men over and over again because they don’t learn from the lessons in the relationship or identify the inner work that they need to do.

Secondly, most women get so caught up with subconscious patching up the holes in their heart with men and situationships that feel familiar to them – by dating men that are narcissist, alcoholic, users, cheaters, momma’s boys, psychotic and commitment phobic – that they never even pick up on their repetitive behavior patterns.

In other words, if you had unmet emotional needs as a child or felt like you had to work hard to get the love and attention you desire from your parents or caregivers – subconsciously you may feel that love equals struggle, conflict and pain and attract relationships that create an addictive “euphoric love high” that feels like love when in reality you may be working hard and doing too much trying to get the love and attention that you deserve from your man.

This is because our subconscious mind is conditioned and committed to your survival. So when you face situations and relationships that are familiar to your past – you get unconsciously sucked into what feels familiar to you – even though deep inside you know that this man is “no good!” Instead of running away – we move forward with the relationships because it keeps us in our comfort zone of struggle, suffering and chasing love.

When you make a conscious decision to start paying attention to the lesson that your relationships are teaching you, you will begin to create your personal breakthrough and stop dating emotionally unavailable men that won’t give you the love that you desire.

Taking a pause to look inward and do inner work is not for the weak. However, women who actually take time to be present with themselves and reflect on why they attract the wrong type of men and get support; actually take responsibility for their emotional inner growth and in the long run they learn how to make better choices, avoiding heartbreak and pain and ultimately they learn how to truly attract their Mr. Right.

Many women spend years going from relationship to relationship without identifying what’s blocking them from love, but YOU don’t have to. I’ve created a very special 5 part training series called, “5 Essential Steps to Stop Dating the Wrong Type of Men…So You Can Attract Your Mr. Right.” This training series will explain, Why You’re Attracting The Wrong Kind Of Men and show you EXACTLY What To Do To Turn This Around so that you can attract high-quality men who will love, adore and support you – and even put a ring on your finger.

Grab your 5 Essential Steps to Stop Dating the Wrong Type of Men…So You Can Attract Your Mr. Right, Video Series, I’ve saved a copy just for you.

Simply click on this link to have your video emailed to you. I can’t wait help you make this your year for love!

Your Girl, The Healthy Love Coach

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