5 Ways to Make a Man Connect and Commit to Only You!
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The most commonly asked question that I get asked by my clients is, “How can I get a man to commit”?

Here’s the deal ladies… men really do want to have a healthy loving relationship just as much as women do. However, men will only commit to the right woman at the right time.

Here are the 5 things that a relationship-ready man must have prior to committing to a woman:


When a woman falls in love, it is all about “who” she falls in love with, however when a man decides to give up his player card, it is more about “when.”

In general, men live their lives in chronological stages: Childhood, Young Adults, Professional life, Family Life and Retirement. Generally, if you meet a great man that seems like your Mr. Right, if he is not in the “Family Life-Stage,” (meaning past Young Adult and progressively into Professional stage), you are simply outa luck!

In addition, if he is going through a traumatic event like divorce, he might enjoy going out on dates – to play and have fun with you. However, he might be a little slow committing, if he has not taken sufficient time to heal or if he is still tying up loose ends with the past.



Men, don’t get into relationship looking for a complete over-haul of themselves. Which is why, you should take your time to get to know and understand a man before you jump into bed, a serious relationship or even marriage with him. Determine if your core values, spirituality and future goals are align. Ask yourself, “Can I accept and respect _____ that I have come to know about him?”

As a woman, you must be sure that you can hold your man in a positive and respectful light at all times (especially in public), honoring his preferences and decisions. In order to have a healthy relationship, each person must be willing to accept the other’s individual’s positive and negative traits as well as having the ability to forgive when necessary.



It’s all right to dress up and enhance your beauty, but do yourself a favor and show up on your date and in your relationships as YOUR TRUEST SELF! Men are completely turned-off when you send your prim, proper, boring representative to your dates. Yes, I know you may be a little cray-cray… or you might think that you are a geek, goof ball, too thick or too thin… but your Mr. Right will absolutely love you just as you are.

Showing up as something you are not send a message that you are dishonest and you don’t honor or value yourself. –Trust me on this one!



Hands-down this is probably the biggest turn-on for men! Men are attracted to women who are confident, happy, secure, living their life to the full, pursuing their dreams and have deep self-love & self -respect. When a woman is secure – she is not needy or jealous because she is comfortable in her own skin.

In addition, a confident woman is not a “yes” woman, she does she allow people to walk all over her nor does she lower her standards or settle for mediocrity – rather she honestly shares her opinion respectfully and she sets healthy boundaries. And she knows when its time to say, “BOY-BYE!”



A real man looking for a deep relationship wants to feel like he can make a difference in your life, as well as put a smile on your face. Even if you understood and mastered every single quality listed above – if you miss this one, you will sabotage your entire relationship!

Most men are aware that a woman can do most things for herself, however if you don’t ALLOW him to show his love and affection through his actions – YOU WILL LOOSE him! You can show interest and make recommendations (when appropriate), however you must let a man be your hero, take the lead, he must know that you trust him and feel that you are receiving and appreciating his acts of kindness.

So if you have a wall up, don’t trust men, carrying emotional baggage or masculine energy, this is where you will need to dig deep, get support from a coach to do your inner-work!

I hope you’ve enjoyed and gained great value out of today’s Blog post, I’m excited to hear your comments and suggestions.

To learn more about how to get a man to commit, be sure to sign up for my FREE Love Breakthrough Summit, where I’ll be interviewing 16+ celebrity transformational, mindset, dating and relationship experts from around the world.

Until next time – I wish you love!

The Healthy Love Coach!





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