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15 Reasons why you don’t Get a 2nd Date

In our dating app-saturated society, attracting a man isn’t the hard part — actually making it to the second date is. If you’ve been on a date but can’t figure out what went wrong, I can help.

So here are 15 Reasons why you don’t Get a 2nd Date and Tips to get a man to ask you out again and again. 


1. You Tried to control the flow of the date

  • If a guy has manned up and asked you out on a date, let him plan the date
  • Allow him to show you that he is competent

   2. You were Fashionably late to the date.

  • Being late to a date is never a good look
  • If you get stuck in traffic, call
  • Showing up late, especially without a call or text, indicates that you’re not considerate of other people’s time.

  3. Your date didn’t feel the same chemistry

  • You may have felt an attraction right away but that doesn’t necessarily mean the feeling was mutual.


  4.  Your Energy is Whack and you’re leaking…

  • Don’t know how to have fun and play girl
  • Overly anxious… stressed out
  • Trying to hard to impress him
  • Not confident
  • Not aligned with your values
  • Not Authentic

5. The date felt more like an interview

  • Nobody wants to feel like they’re on a job interview when trying to make a romantic connection with someone.
  • Be patient you will learn everything you need to learn in time.

6. You didn’t have a stimulating conversation.

  • Do you tend to be overly, formal and polite, as well as stick to safe topics?
  • You need to show your smart, inquisitive side also… be naturally curious and genuinely compassionate

    7. Over shared information, & Talked about your ex or rambled, complain a lot

  • Verbal diarrhea is telling too much too soon.
  • You don’t need to talk to much about DRAMA
  • Don’t share too much about your emotional baggage on the first date.
  •  No ex talk

 8. You were rude & disrespectful

  • “Sometimes people aren’t friendly to the Uber driver, waitress, bell hop, valet driver…
  • Men notice that type of stuff
  • If you’re the slightest bit disrespectful to anyone, your date might not want-to-want to see you again, because it’s a sign that you may be nasty and disrespectful to him.
  • Learn to treat everyone with respect on a daily basis

 9. You are dressed for work… And not the date

  • You came straight from work and did not change to date appropriate clothes.

 10. You got too drunk.

  • Adopt a two-drink maximum policy
  • You only get one chance to make a first impression
  • Avoid having your judgment clouded.

 11. You weren’t present and interested

  • “Pay attention to your date and give them your undivided attention.
  • Turn off your electronic devices
  • Stay off of social media
  • Take interest in your partner and make eye contact

  12. Date lasted too long

  • Or you invited him to your home…
  • Let it end…

    13.  Sex too soon

  • He doesn’t feel special…
  • He thinks you do this with every man you date

   14,  Gratitude

  • Call him to thank him for the date and if appropriate complement him on his choices

  15. It’s a blessing in disguise!

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